Coping with Breakup
The Magic Of Making Up
Coping with breakup is never easy, but The Magic Of Making Up provides workable solutions for the heartbreak of not being able to rescue your relationship with a return phone call from your Ex, which is an emotional tragedy almost everyone has gone through from time to time. If you are in such a painful situation, and you would do almost anything have your beloved call you back, there is hope! Naturally, there is no sure method of making another person do what you want them to do all the time, but there certainly are techniques you can use to increase the possibility of getting a return phone call from your Ex.
Right now, through your pain and tears, you are probably asking if there are 'magic' words available to you that can help you encourage your Ex to return your phone calls. As hard as it may be to believe right now, there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your Ex feel almost compelled to return your call. It's not as difficult as you think it is, and you will congratulate yourself for having taken such a positive step in your relationship.
Very interesting, don't you think?...
The Magic Of Making Up
I am going to share this information with you because this is one of the major and most immediate questions broken-hearted people just like you--people who are are trying to put their relationships back together--ask when they find themselves alone and in great need of the reassuring voice of their lover.
Right now, you want an answer to the burning question..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"
HOWEVER...
BE CAREFUL!
While The Magic Of Making Up lays out an honest strategy that can be put into action as soon as you dial your Ex's phone number, if you use this very effective technique without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you could easily damage your precious relationship more than if your lover never returned your phone call at all.
What NOT to Say--Ever!
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message rarely, IF EVER, works,
and worse...
Puts you in an TERRIBLE 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD
The PLEAD is a message that sounds like this:
"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
The EMERGENCY
"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."
Now, can you clearly see what is wrong with both of those ultimately negative approaches? The PLEAD indicates a tome of desperation since it numbers the times you have called recently without getting a response, and this might make your Ex feel guilty for not having called sooner.
Curiosity and Self Interest Are Your Advantages
Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are
*Curiosity
and
*Self Interest
And here's the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work the 'magic' that will positively motivate your Ex to return your phone call.
As earlier mentioned, curiosity and self interest are very powerful motivational interests. Don't you respond when you feel the tug of curiosity and self interest? Of course you do!
Let's look at what you can say to your Ex to produce a return phone call that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a cheerful, friendly tone that invites a welcoming response, you could say:
"Hi Chuck. It's Mandy. It is important for me to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me as soon as you can so we can arrange for me to thank you in person."
It is easy to see that this approach uses BOTH curiosity and self interest!
Chuck will NOT be able to resist your strategy! He will almost surely ask himself, "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate so much that she wants to thank me in person?" More important, he will be thinking about you, and he will feel good because it is a skillfully upbeat message that suggests a very positive response.
Now...
Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing at all...but it needs to be something a person can believe.
But more importantly...
BE EXTRA CAREFUL!
Please have an underlying strategy as is lain out in the The Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back, you can do much more DAMAGE than good if you do not manage it correctly. More often than not, the chances of getting a return phone call from your Ex will depend on how well you organize your thoughts and plans BEFORE YOU CALL. Do not make the mistake of calling your Ex while your mind is clouded by suffering or anger. These negative feelings will show in your voice and produce exactly the opposite effect you want to have on your Ex.
Do not underestimate the power of the underlying strategy if you want to produce a positive response.
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call. You really do want to increase your chances of having your Ex return your phone call as much as possible, so a sensible, calm approach is the one you want to use in this delicate situation.
In addition to the underlying strategy revealed in the The Magic Of Making Up, it is a very good idea to prepare yourself physically for your call. For example, you can listen to calming music, take a hot bath or engage in physical exercise such as walking or running. The idea is to increase your sense of joy and happiness before you make the call to your Ex. Your increased sense of happiness will certainly come through to your Ex in your voice tone and expand the welcoming message you will leave for your lover.
Does this make sense?
Have a plan that will produce the result you want, and if you want to greatly increase the chances that you can rescue your relationship with a return phone call from your Ex, then use the strategy in The Magic Of Making Up!
