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Marriage Problems



It is no wonder that marriage problems can force you into a position where the problems associated with coping with breakup can cause you many sleepless nights. In addition, you are then confronted with more than one mind bending possibility. The sheer amount of time you have invested in your partnership makes it problematic to say it is over; the stark fact is that there is no easy way to go about coping with breakup, and it is certainly never easy to speak the word goodbye. Marriage problems are fraught with peril, which is always the case with a break up, but it especially true after an extended period of togetherness. Still, coping with breakup as a result of marriage problems can offer an emotional learning curve that can often illuminate when it really is time to call a halt to the problems in the relationship and move on to the next best thing in your life. Granted the effort to lean how and when to end your relationship can be stressful, but it can also be liberating since the marriage problems can be put behind you and your partner.

Since it is important to discover the negative impact these marriage problems are having on you, here are three signs that coping with breakup are robbing you of your joy:

An exaggerated since of guilt, self blame, self-doubt; these negative feelings are often accompanied by diminished self-esteem and self worth.

An inability to maintain friendships and other relationships outside the marriage problems.

Protracted inability to assert yourself or a sense of being overwhelmed by fears and doubts.

Marriage Problems Can Be Worked Out

If you really love the person you’re with, you might wonder when to end a relationship and why. You might think that just because you love him or her, you should stay and work things out. And very often it is worth a try.

Many people give up on their relationships before they’ve really tried to fix them. Because it’s difficult, they throw in the towel instead of working on their problems. This is unfortunate, because many people could probably be happy together if only they weren’t afraid to try.

And other people have problem after problem and keeping working hard when most people think they should just give up. It’s as if these people are gluttons for punishment. Their partner keeps cheating on them and they keep taking him back. Or their partner keeps making other mistakes and letting them down.

It seems they don’t know when to end a relationship. But usually it’s that they’re simply afraid of being alone and moving on.

Marriage Problems are Obvious

There are obvious situations that should tell you when to end a relationship. If your partner is abusive, it’s time to get out, no excuses. If you don’t feel safe, even down to feeling like you’ll have something to eat and be secure, then you should move on.

Other things are less sure. If your partner has cheated, for instance, does that always mean it’s time to leave? Some people can get past one mistake like that. They sometimes end up with a stronger relationship after the affair.

But more often they really never get past the betrayal. Even if it never happens again, the one who was cheated on can’t let go of the hurt. And the one who cheated will eventually get tired of the suspicion and guilt.

Marriage Problems Could Indicate Cheating

If there has been cheating in your relationship, it’s not easy to decide if it should end. You should really talk about everything involved. From trust to fear of it happening again, it should all be put on the table in an honest discussion.

How about if you feel like cheating? If you have a really strong desire to be with someone else, should you end it? These types of feelings are natural. You can even have fantasies about other people. But if you’re constantly thinking that you’d be better of with someone else, maybe you really would be.

If you love your partner and you’ve tried different ways of working it out, step back. How have you really tried? Of course, there is the issue of time and the length of the issues mean a lot when deciding to end a relationship and the end isn’t always easy to see. However, given that you have made every possible effort in regards to coping with breakup, it many very well be appropriate to deal bluntly with your marriage problems sooner rather than later.

5 comments:

Unknown said...

Nice post,

Marriage problems can be emotional and hence needs to be handled according to the emotional requirements. One must analyze the reasons as to why the marriage problems occur even though nothing significant is visible. The emotional sparks which have not been created in the mind of the wife leads to all these problems.

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